Whether it’s for a new job, your partner, or just needing a change, moving to a new city is a step into the unknown. I’ve done that very thing several times throughout my life, and one thing is certain: meeting people in a new city requires effort. Last year, after my dog, Bowie, passed away just two weeks after I got laid off from my job, I took it as a sign from the universe to temporarily relocate to Naples, Italy.
Not only was this a step away from everything I knew, but it also meant trying to make new friends in both a city and country that were not my own. Some days were a struggle, but overall, I can now say I have friends in Naples. So all that’s to say: it’s possible, dear reader.
And just in case you don’t want to solely take my word for it, I went ahead and tapped a few experts on the matter. Below, they share a few tips on just how to meet people—both romantic and platonic—in a new city. Not only have I moved to new cities throughout my life, but I’m also a frequent solo traveler.
One of my favorite ways to socialize is by joining food tours or group day trips. I have made lifelong friends from simple walking tours, so it’s no surprise the experts suggest this. Group activities can vary, of course—from dancing classes to team sports—but it ultimately comes down to just “doing something together,” says sexologist Melanie Eichhorn, who’s head of sexual education and diversity at Satisfyer.
If you love crafting, find a crafting club. Or if reading is your thing, search up a few book clubs or pop into a indie bookstore to see if they’re offering one. Group activities are a great way to meet friends, yes, but they also can be avenues that lead to a potential romantic partnership, whether with that person in the group or someone they may know.
I did this by happenstance during my early days in Naples. I was walking around one day and struggling with my phone, so I popped into a small bar to use their WiFi. I got a glass of wine, connected to their network, and ended up making small talk with the bartender.
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